The Dinner List

What five people, living or dead, would you choose to have dinner with?

We've all been asked this question, and in "The Dinner List", Rebecca Serle takes it on and uses it to weave a beautiful, dreamy story. 

At the opening of the story, the narrator, Sabrina, finds herself seated in an Italian restaurant with the love of her life, her best friend, her dad, her favorite college professor, and...Audrey Hepburn. As the story unfolds, Sabrina is forced to confront issues with the most important people in her life. She is challenged to rethink long held views and get past her own emotional hang-ups for a chance at healing and reconciliation. 

This book's tone reminded me a lot of the television show Younger. The main character and her friends and boyfriend are very Brooklyn hipster (even if Sabrina prefers Manhattan) and I'm not going to lie, it worked for me. I loved the references to places around New York City and Serle made me believe that she was an authority on it, which matters to me. 

The relationships that find themselves at the center of the story were just messy enough to be interesting, and the way the story unfolds, dancing between fantasy and reality, definitely kept the pages turning. "The Dinner List" features quick chapters and a low page count that makes it one of those rare stories you can binge read in a day. It reads young and fresh and maybe a little corky. And while the appearance of Audrey Hepburn as one of the characters rang a little odd, I'm always up for her presence anywhere for any reason, so I went with it. 

If the goal of this book was to reveal deep truths, it fell short for me. The word "young" keeps popping into my mind, and in the sense of lessons learned, it felt like a young voice was trying to deliver life lessons to me. I didn't come away with any newfound revelations. However, if the goal was to tell a love story in a fresh, new way, it definitely succeeded. It is perfect if you're looking for a great weekend read with a nice big dose of romance. And if you're an Audrey Hepburn fan? No question this one is for you. 

Flatiron Books provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review.

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Forest Therapy

I picked up “Forest Therapy” by Sarah Ivens around the same time that my family moved into a neighborhood that bordered on a large park. Turns out, it was just the right book at just the right time.

Ivens infuses her book with beautiful descriptions of nature that make you want to get outside immediately. She points out again and again how forest therapy is extremely beneficial to our health and offers tons of tips for how to rejuvenate your inner tree hugger. The chapters in the book make it easy to cherry pick subjects you feel strongly about, like getting outdoors with your kids or allowing nature to rekindle the romance in your relationship.

I love a good list, and “Forest Therapy” is brimming with them. Ivens offers everything from book lists to playlists to recipes for natural face masks. I found myself dog earing pages again and again so that I could revisit them with each passing season and take some of her suggestions.

I am someone who loves the outdoors. Still, I realized after reading this book that I could get into nature even more. Since reading “Forest Therapy”, I have found myself reading outside in the twilight hours instead of on the couch, doing my yoga in the grass, and paying extra attention to the plants inside and outside my home. And the park across the street? I am listening to its invitation to visit whenever possible. In a time when we are urged by our culture to be inside more and more, I am so thankful for a voice that reminds us there is another way. If you need that reminder, “Forest Therapy” is the book for you.

*Da Capo Press provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review.

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The Hidden Side

Oh gosh. This book dug into deep, dark places. It got serious REAL fast, and it never really came up for air. And, honestly, I couldn't put it down.

Heidi Chiavaroli, author of "The Hidden Side", took on a myriad of tough topics in this fast paced, addictive piece of historical fiction. From bullying to school shootings to family tragedy to some good old fashioned war-time espionage, the subjects just kept coming and Chiavaroli handled them carefully and with an expertise that was impressive. That said, this is not a breezy read.

In 2016, a family finds their entire world turned upside down after a school shooting. Their quest to find new life, new hope, after tragedy is compeling in part because Chiavaroli has created characters that we can root for. She has also created characters that feel real. They are not shined up, made pretty for a Christian fiction title, forced to minimize their problems and make them tidy. Instead, they find redemption and hope from a God who accepts them, even in their worst moment.

In 1776, one woman must decide if she will support a cause she believes in with all her heart, that of the Revolution, by living a double life. Her decision gets more and more complicated as she realizes that, in spite of their allegiance to Britian, the redcoats are in some cases well meaning and [dare I say] worthy of her affection.

These two stories absolutely held my attention from the first page to the last. There was not a moment of lag, not a moment I didn't care about the outcome of their narratives. Don't read this book for a breezy break, do read it for a well-written and challenging story.

I only have one critique of this book, and it was large enough to make me rate it 3/5 on Goodreads. The character in 1776, by all appearances in my own research, did not exist. She is tied to extremely influential historical figures in the story, and it bothered me that she was not real. I am a big fan of historical fiction, and for me, the most successful stories manage to hug close to history enough so that you are not alterring it. Creating this particular woman and placing her right alongside real people, often motivating their decisions, seemed one step too far. BUT, it sure made for a good read!

Tyndale has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

 

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Things I Never Told You

There are secrets lurking just beneath the surface of this book, and I know it even before I open it. 

Thanks to a great title, "Things I Never Told You" had me excited from the first time I heard about it. I happened to start it over Memorial Day Weekend, and it had all the things I hoped for in a summer read. Great characters, a little romance, and a lot of mystery to keep the pages turning.

Beth Vogt did a great job of making me care about her characters, particularly the three who took on narrative roles. There is nothing quite as satisfying as spending your journey through a book rooting for people you care about. She took on big issues, like recovering from the loss of a family member and dealing with a cancer diagnosis, and did so with care and skill. The struggle felt real, and that is the mark of a good book.

In the end, the "things" mentioned in the title didn't turn out to be quite as shocking as I had expected. I wished Vogt had pushed the plot a little farther to make the payoff even more satisfying. But she did convince me that the secrets the main character had kept were important enough to her to alter her life. And I loved the redemption that followed their release.

If you are looking for a good book, particularly a chance to plug into a series with great characters (this is just the first of the Thatcher Sisters books), I would definitely recommend picking this one up.

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The Read-Aloud Family

Before you even open Sarah Mackenzie’s new book, “The Read-Aloud Family”, the subtitle tells you what the contents will help you to accomplish: “Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your Kids”. Who wouldn’t want to read a book that promises to unlock some of the keys to those connections?

If you’re like me, you cravy quality time with your kids, an hour [or minute] to cuddle up with them and enjoy a good book or talk about their day. A time to truly connect and let them know they are heard and loved and valued. “The Read-Aloud Family” offers practical ways to find that time and to maximize it once it is found. From ideas for conversation starters to handy checklists for what your kids can do while you read aloud, this book is chock full of actionable items. My personal favorite was Mackenzie’s suggestion to play audiobooks on long car rides. My kids love them, and we’ve been able to take on books that might have felt a bit boring without a great narrator.

Mackenzie comes into this project with a whole lot of street cred in the children’s book world. She hosts the popular podcast, “The Read-Aloud Revival”, which features guests who are prominent in the book world as well as a bevy of book suggestions. She also keeps her website brimming with ideas for reading to different age groups or during different times of year. That expertise is clear in the book, where she offers plenty of wisdom for parents looking to expand their read-aloud horizons.

Ultimately, there will be two types of people who will enjoy this book. The first, parents who have no history of reading with their kids, will be encouraged by Mackenzie’s “You can do it!” attitude in every chapter. She even directly references what to do when you’re starting out. Then, the second group, parents like myself who have been reading to their children for a long time, will also find a place in the pages. With fresh, unique ideas and an up to date booklist overflowing with current titles, Mackenzie will reload the arsenal of even the most seasoned read-aloud families.

We only have so many years with our kids, and any resource that can help to make those years more rich with is invaluable. “The Read-Aloud Family” is just such a resource.  

*Zondervan has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. "The Read-Aloud Family" is available on March 27, 2018.*

 

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From ideas for conversation starters to handy checklists for what your kids can do while you read aloud, this book is chock full of actionable items.

The Saturday Night Supper Club

Sometimes you just need some good food and a Hallmark movie. And that is what “The Saturday Night Supper Club” by Carla Laureano feels like.

Laureano artfully weaves the story of Rachel, an acclaimed chef living in Denver. Almost immediately, her life collides with that of freelance writer Alex. When he offers her an opportunity to overcome a social media disaster and rebuild her career, Rachel realizes she is putting her faith in a man she barely knows. She is scared of opening up and trusting other people, but suddenly, she has no choice but to trust Alex.

This story is chick lit at its best. You can pick it up and be guaranteed a sweet romance and lovely characters you will want to root for. You can also expect to be starving. Because Laureano writes as if she has been working in high-end kitchens all her life. Or maybe she’s just been watching a whole lot of Food Network. The point is, this story feels really accurate. From bacon, cheese, and chive scones to pistachio financiers with orange blossom ice cream, your mouth will be watering. “The Saturday Night Supper Club” is definitely a foodie’s dream.

As satisfying as the food is, the love story is even better. Following along with Rachel and Alex as they struggle to balance their work lives and emotional baggage with the challenges of a budding relationship is a treat to read. They are both very likeable characters, as are the additional side characters you will meet along the way. 

If you are looking to settle in for a Sunday afternoon of easy reading, or if you just need a break from heavier fare, “The Saturday Night Supper Club” might just be the right fit for you. It was for me. Now, about that scone...

 

*Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review.

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Breaking Cover

Every once in a while, you have the good fortune to stumble upon a book like “Breaking Cover” by Michele Rigby Assad. A book that packs all the intrigue and intensity of a spy thriller flick into a non-fiction title. One that features a narrator who is humble and real, who owns both her ups and [perhaps more importantly] downs. The type of page-turner that exposes the evils of the world, but also serves up a healthy dose of hope.

“Breaking Cover” opens with Michelle and her husband interviewing a man in Iraq, a man who appears to be lying to them. Since the couple has spent a decade in the CIA, serving in war zones in the Middle East, they are uniquely equipped to detect a suspicious person. And wow, is this guy suspicious. Is he who he claims to be?

After that tense and intriguing opening, Assad hits the rewind button. She tells the reader about her upbringing, and specifically about what brought her to the CIA. The drama of the story intensifies as she and her husband are deployed to dangerous countries on important missions. Throughout much of the journey, Assad is honest about her struggles and lack of understanding about the direction her life has taken. Why is she sent on countless assignments to difficult places while other agents land themselves spots in more desirable locations? Is she even qualified to take on the high stakes work she is saddled with? What is she supposed to do with her future?

Then, suddenly, everything becomes clear when her background as an agent qualifies her to run a mission to save hundreds of internally displaced people in Iraq who are fleeing a murderous terrorist organization. That mission puts her across the table from the previously mentioned suspicious man, the one who may or may not be who he claims to be. Thanks to her schooling and work, she is able to make a determination with expert confidence. And she is able to be a leader in the mission to give the persecuted Iraqis a chance at a new life.

From start to finish, Assad weaves a story that is stunning...because it’s true. Her story is fascinating, and her accomplishments are impressive. She is a strong and intelligent role model to any woman who reads her story. More than that though, “Breaking Cover”, tells the story of a woman who knows it is not about her. And that is perhaps the most impressive thing of all.

 

*A cool way to enhance your read of this book would be to look up the 20/20 piece that ABC did on Assad’s mission to liberate Iraqi Christians. I watched it after I read the book and was so glad I did.
**Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

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Island of the Blue Foxes

Most of us have heard of places like the Bering Straight or Bering Sea, yet if you're like me, you probably have no idea who Bering actually was, nor the part he played in the exploration of the world. "Island of the Blue Foxes" offers an intimate view of the Great Northern Expedition, a mission initiated by the Russian Empire's Peter the Great to explore the far reaches of Siberia and the western coast of America. If the mission had been a complete success, the story would be interesting. However, in the struggles, trials, and eventual disasters that befell the crew of expedition, I found a story that I couldn't put down.

Stephen Bown, the author of "Island", puts the reader right in the middle of the action from the start. The prologue of the book immediately places us with a group of sailors that has found themselves shipwrecked on a deserted island. Bown then rewinds and fills in the entire story of the expedition. This was the perfect way to make the story even more engaging. 

Due to the nature of the expedition, there are many stories from the crew that were doubtless left unrecorded and will never be told. But Bown was able to take the existing narratives and piece together a story that felt well-rounded and complete. It is a story of the fallibility of individuals, but it also a story of triumph. I am so glad I had the opportunity to read this book, and to learn about Bering and his daring crew on "the world's greatest scientific expedition".

*Da Capo Press has provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

 

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Habits of the Heart

365-day devotionals, or their cousin the daily rip-off calendar, can tend towards oversimplicity. Even if they are encouraging, I don't really expect them to delve deeply into spiritual issues or disciplines. And that is what makes "Habits of the Heart" stand apart from the crowd.

This devotional is broken down into weekly themes. Each one explores an essential spiritual theme, breaking it down into its finer points each day. For example, the week on "Practicing Self-Examination" features days like "What's In Your Heart?" and "Who Do You Want to Be?". I found this format easy to read, and it allowed me spend a good amount of time meditating on each concept.

The emphasis here is definitely on scripture, and the notes from the author are short and to the point. However, Butler has found a way to sneak in lots of helpful tips that I know will be useful for many modern users. She emphasizes using features like the reminder app on your phone to reinforce verses or ideas that are meant to be revisited day after day.

Speaking of modern, the design of this book looks like it came right off the set of Fixer Upper. The beautiful wood grain cover makes it either the perfect gift or something you can be proud to leave out in your home. At least for me, when it comes to little daily devotionals like this, design does play a part in whether or not I pick it up. This one gets an A+.

The truth is, we are all battling to make time in our day for spiritual discipline. "Habits of the Heart" is the perfect blueprint to guide you through that process.

 

*Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

 

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Stones of Remembrance

I have an awful memory. Usually I refer to it with a laugh as mommy brain, but the truth is, even when I laugh about it, my inability to remember even basic things is pretty depressing. So I was immediately attracted to “Stones of Remembrance”, which promises to specifically help the reader with memorization, and more broadly with general brain health. 

The book is broken down into three sections: twelve spiritual disciplines for improving your memory, twelve verses to remember in various life circumstances, and twelve verses every Christian should know. 

I found the first section to be filled with good reminders about how to live a well-balanced life. It was a good check-in on concepts that weren’t necessarily ground breakingly new in this book, but still vitally important to remember.

The second section was great. I will absolutely keep this book on my nightstand just so I can reference this section again and again. It broke encouraging Bible verses down by what specific season of life you find yourself in. Whether you are happy, depressed, scared, tired, or thankful, there is a section with twelve appropriate verses listed out for you to meditate on. This was great.

The third and last section held verses that many readers are likely to already know. I expected the choices to be a little more surprising, but they are definitely the “greatest hits” of scripture, from John 3:16 to 1 Corinthians 13. Still a great read even if you know them, although the version of scripture used (New Living Translation) made them all slightly different from the famous versions I’ve memorized.

Overall, this book was a quick read which I plan to revisit often. I would love to commit every verse in this book to heart and mind over time because I know I will need and use them as I walk through different seasons of life. Just like when the Israelites took stones from the Jordan River to remember the promises of God, I plan to keep this book around so I too can hold on to those promises.

* Please note that Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Queen Victoria's Matchmaking

I remember my mom telling me that, when she was a teenager, her mom [aka my grandma] would approach lifeguards on the beach and brazenly introduce them to her daughters. At the time, I didn’t think anyone could top that level of bold matchmaking. Then I read “Queen Victoria’s Matchmaking” by Deborah Cadbury. Let’s just say Queen V could give my grandma a run for her money.

“Matchmaking” chronicles the efforts of Queen Victoria to orchestrate the marriages of her children and grandchildren. At its root was a desire to honor the vision of her beloved husband, Prince Albert, to bring unity in Europe through a network of marriages that would tie different countries and empires to each other. However noble the plan was, as the years passed and Queen Victoria found herself a widow destined to execute the plan on her own, things got more and more complicated...even messy.

This book succeeds in showing the overarching dynamics playing out in Europe at this time, as well as the intimate inner workings of a family that spread itself from England to Germany, Greece, Russia and numerous other countries. Each story, each individual member of the family, is more fascinating than the last. Seeing their love stories play out is more gripping still.

Cadbury tells a story that I knew very little of. So many of the names that star in this book were mere footnotes in my knowledge of history until I read this book. Within a few chapters, I found myself anxious to learn the fates of the colorful characters that made up one of the most intriguing families you will ever encounter. And I must admit, in spite of her shocking frankness and shameless interference, I was rooting for Queen Victoria’s Matchmaking to win out every time. Because you always have to root for grandma.

Educated

Some books just blow you away.

 

I read “Educated” by Tara Westover in two days. When I was finished, I had that rare and special feeling of wanting more. Maybe that is because even though the book is finished, Tara’s story isn’t. Maybe that is part of the magic of the narrative. It is the story of a living, breathing person whose story is still playing out. That in and of itself makes the stakes in this book so much higher.

 

The book tells the story of Tara and her family, a clan that is led by her survivalist father. In the shadow of a beautiful mountain in Idaho, he has committed to preparing for the end of the world and expects his wife and children to do the same. This involves packing “go bags” in case they have to hide in the mountains from federal agents, burying a gas tank so that they can function when the rest of society is crippled, and canning countless jars of peaches so that they will not starve.

 

Tara’s tumultuous upbringing is also devoid of one key component: an education. Because of her father’s fear of the government, Tara is not allowed to attend school, and home schooling is minimal at best.

 

There were moments in this book that drew me out of the narrative in the best possible way, to remind me that this was not just a well told story. This was REAL. Two in particular were her remembrances of Y2K and 9.11. Tara and I were born two months apart in the same year, so hearing how divergent our interaction with those events was really drove home how unique her upbringing was.

 

In “Educated”, you will definitely find heartbreak and pain. It is at the core of her narrative. But you will also find a victory that is so unbelievable it will have you cheering for the little girl, now woman, who could have given up but didn’t. I could throw around a lot of words: shocking, inspiring, powerful. They would all be true of this book.  

 

Please note that Random House has provided me with a complimentary advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

The Masterpiece

Boys meets girl. They fall in love and live happily ever after. So simple, right? Not if Francine Rivers has anything to say about it!

 

For years, Rivers has faithfully produced stories that tug at our heartstrings...works like “A Voice in the Wind” and “When the Shofar Blew”. Most recently, “A Bridge to Haven”. Now, in her book that is set to release in January 2018, she is back and yes, still producing love stories that are both agonizing and glorious.

 

“The Masterpiece” follows two main characters. Roman is an artist with a troubled past who uses anger as a weapon and builds walls to make sure he is never hurt again. Grace is a struggling single mom with any equally complicated history. She chooses to hide from things that scare her, and often finds herself making choices that please others but ultimately harm her.

 

As you would expect, from the very start, Roman and Grace are set on a crash course into...well, each other. But there is so much more to their journey, starting with their separate struggles to understand the role God plays in their lives.

 

“The Masterpiece”, first, is a very enjoyable read. Rivers is an expert at cloaking her stories in mystery, in such a way that you find yourself turning page after page long after you should be asleep. She tells a story that moves quickly, and if the action doesn’t pull you along, the tug on your heart will. Second, though, and just as important, this book felt well-researched. It covers sensitive topics like childhood trauma, drug use, single motherhood, as well as exploring what the life of a graffiti artist is like. All were handled well, all treated with respect and I felt, without cliche.

 

Fans of Rivers may find that a novel set in the present day lacks some of the romantic muscle that, say “A Voice in the Wind” might have. But the characters of Roman and Grace are equal to the beloved names we all know from Rivers: Hadassah and Marcus, Paul and Eunice Hudson, Angel and Michael. You will find yourself rooting for them from the early pages of this novel. And with a heavy dose of spirituality, Rivers takes the book to a place that transcends place and time. Make room on your bookshelf for this one!

 

Please note that Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Under a Cloudless Sky

I loved this book.

Sometimes you just have to lead with that. 

From the start, this book vaguely reminded me of the film "Promised Land", which starred Matt Damon. "Promised Land" was the story of how a big corporation was trying to convince people to give up their way of life in the name of progress. "Under a Cloudless Sky" by Chris Fabry told a very similar tale...until it took a turn that hooked me even more.

The book alternates between 1933 and 2004, telling the story of two girls named Ruby and Bean. Ruby, an elderly woman in 2004, is looking back through the years and confronting some difficult memories. Those memories are veiled in mystery, a mystery that kept me turning pages until I polished off the book in two days.

We all want to route for the underdog, and I'm going to guess that we all want to see the everyday, "little man" win in the face of a big company. We also want to bring exploitation and abuse to light, to see wrongs righted and the innocent given a voice. The story that "Under a Cloudless Sky" tells gives the readers all those gifts. And it gives them wrapped in a beautiful, engrossing story. I am so glad I got to read it. 

*This book is set to release in January 2018*

Please note that Tyndale House Publishers has provided me with a complimentary advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Death at Thorburn Hall

Calling all Agatha fans!

I often wonder what it would be like to live in the era when new Hercule Poirot mysteries were coming out. I've imagined opening a catalog and discovering that a new one was available, or reading an excerpt from one in my morning newspaper. There are probably many Agatha Christie fans who can relate. That's why the Drew Farthering mysteries are so much fun. Julianna Deering has somehow managed to make me believe that we're all living pre-World War II in England, and every new release from her makes my dream of new Agatha mysteries feel a little bit more like reality.

Drew Farthering, the star of the series, is a young wealthy man who is reminiscent of Poirot in that you kind of love him, but also kind of find him to be obnoxious. Somehow that works. Nick is the Watson to his Sherlock, and for me, he is what makes the series so enjoyable. He is sweet and down to earth, patient with Drew and caring to the victims left behind in their cases. All in all, Deering has created a cast of characters that is flawed enough to be real, and fictional enough to be fun.

This particular installment in the series, "Death at Thorburn Hall" was one I found especially interesting because of its tie-in to history. It comes on the scene at the time when Hitler was rising to power and spies were gathering information in England and throughout Europe before the war broke out. I don't want to give away any spoilers, so I'll just say that this historical backdrop made the story extra intriguing.

As for the mystery itself, I have to be fair and say that I guessed the murderer pretty much from the start. That was where this stopped feeling like an Agatha Christie. I wished that the culprit was more carefully veiled, that the motivations of other characters felt more believable, that in general the possibilities of whodunnit felt equally weighted. But, even though I was pretty sure I saw where the story was going, I found the journey to be incredibly entertaining. 

If you're looking for a good, old-fashioned mystery series to invest in, I would definitely recommend the Drew Farthering Mysteries. And if you've already started and are wondering about continuing, go for it. The developments in the lives of the main characters alone are worth it. As for the whodunnit, I'll leave that to you to find out.

*This book is set to release in November 2017*

The Four Tendencies

I do tasks that will only take a minute immediately instead of saving them for later. I open boxes carefully so as not to damage them. I [try to] remove splinters with tape. I occasionally ask myself how future Nicole would feel about choices I am making now. And when I want to eat better, I abstain from garbage food because I know I’m not built for moderation.

 

I do all of these things because of suggestions from Gretchen Rubin. So, needless to say, I was very excited to receive a copy of her brand new book, set to release next week, called “The Four Tendencies”.

 

If you read Rubin’s last book, “Better than Before”, or listen to her podcast, “Happier with Gretchen Rubin”, the ideas in this new book will not be new to you. It takes her concept that all people fall into four broad personality profiles and expands on it, carefully outlining each one: Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, and Rebel.

 

On the technical side of things, I found the structure of the book to be just right. Chapters start with a broad definition of each tendency, including pros and cons. Then follows sections on how to deal with spouses, kids, coworkers, or healthcare patients with that tendency. It even talks about what type of jobs might suit you if you have that tendency. Although there were definitely a lot of points I had already heard her make, she also had saved some material for the book, and I found new ideas and tips as I read.

 

As far as personal application goes, I found a ton of treasures in these pages. First, I hope this book gets into the hands of tons of teachers. They should donate it to them, make it mandatory reading, something...my teacher husband is sure going to hear about it. I spent my entire education being made to feel rebellious and like a “less-than” student because I questioned the status quo. The answer “because I said so” used to drive me bonkers because it made absolutely no sense. It really hampered the amount of success I had in high school because so much of my energy was spent fighting the injustice of the system instead of learning. When I got to college, where questions were not only welcomed but celebrated, I thrived. Now I know it is because I am a questioner. I wish my teachers in those younger years had taken the time to know me and figure that out.

 

I love the idea that by knowing myself and others better, I can be a better wife and friend, daughter and mom. I can treat myself better and chase my health goals more effectively. Like all of Rubin’s books, I finished with real action items to chase that I knew would result in a happier and more productive lifestyle. And who doesn’t want that?!

 

On the other side, I did feel that this book lacked some of the magic that was abounding in her huge hit, “The Happiness Project”. I missed the way she wove facts and applications into her own unfolding story. There were still anecdotes from herself and readers, but it didn’t feel like a memoir. This didn’t take away from the readability, I just hope she returns to her former glory in the next book she writes.

 

One other minor note. I wished she hadn’t plugged her app and podcast. She could have even mentioned them, but the way she pointedly talked about them by their full names made it feel like unnatural commercials stuck in the middle of a book. I would have saved that for the endnotes, where incidentally, she also mentioned them.

 

Finding the negatives in a great book can get super nit-picky. And that’s what I’ve done here. Because this is a great book. It’s worth picking up, maybe to kick of the new year, which is when I usually read her books, to start the school year, or as a Christmas gift for anyone and everyone. I doubt there is anyone who wouldn’t benefit from it.  

*THIS BOOK IS SET TO RELEASE ON SEPTEMBER 12, 2017*

Anatomy of an Affair

"This book is so important."

That's what I kept thinking as I read it. It's what I told my mom as I explained it to her on the phone this morning. It's what I told my husband over and over again as I passed along thoughts from the text.  

The fact is, whether your marriage is healthy or not, you can't be too careful about guarding it. I really value books that help to do just that. "Anatomy of an Affair" gave real instruction and practices that you can take right into your marriage and apply. It wasn't heavy on accusation towards either men or women, which some books can tend towards. It was a balanced view of a problem we all face: the close calls that are all around us, that can so easily undermine our marriages.

In many ways, this book reminded me of Andy Stanley's "Guardrails". It had the same practical advice and I recognized a lot of the tips as being the same. The benefit of "Anatomy" is that is a very easy, short read (I finished it in two days of on-and-off reading). I know I will be using so much of what I learned to strengthen and guard my marriage, and I'm sure anyone who picks up this book will as well.

Read this book if: You are married or planning to be married. We can all use these reminders.
Don't read this book if: This book may contain triggers for people struggling in difficult relationships. While it may help, it might be a good idea to talk to your pastor or counselor first before you start reading.

Seven Days of Us

Can we all agree up front that reading a Christmas-themed book during the summer is THE BEST?

Okay, now that we have that out of the way..

"Seven Days of Us" has a few things going for it right out of the gate: Christmas time and a solid setting (old, weathered English estate, anyone?). It also has the benefit of a British author, which in my book is always a good thing. There's a certain tone to British books that totally appeals to me. 

Christmas traditions come up a lot in the book, and as I sat down to share my thoughts about my reading experience, the idea of traditions carried over to what I will share here. Hornak has written a story that delivers many of the traditional components of a novel about a family: difficult/distanced dad, kind if not overbearing mom, two daughters (one smart and serious, one flaky and immature). There is the big secret waiting to reveal itself and change their lives forever, there is the force of nature that causes them to live together in confinement (in this case, in quarantine), there is...well, you get the idea.

So the truth is, this novel isn't going to reinvent the wheel. But isn't that okay? You know you love these stories. You know you drop them into your Amazon cart before you've finished the back flap description. I know I do.

I genuinely loved pieces of this book. The author is a very good writer. She has a way of using words that made me reread paragraphs over just to enjoy them. That is a wonderful thing in and of itself. I also thought that, while so much of the plot followed expected form, there were a few moments that totally surprised me. 

The part that I struggled with was that I just didn't love the majority of the characters. I need to want to root for someone. The mother, Emma, was lovable. She was the redemption in the midst of a crew that didn't seem to care a whole lot about the effect their actions had on others. This was definitely meant to be a story of redemption, but even in the redemption, I didn't trust these people. I just felt like the manner of their failures revealed character flaws so deep that the redemption wasn't terribly satisfying. 

Lastly, the lone American in the story is likable, but I struggled with all the stereotypes packed into his character, and it made it hard for me to take him seriously. Using "like" all the time, being vegan, practicing deep breathing and yoga, obsessing about Whole Foods Market, being overly friendly with strangers...one or two are okay, but all piled on, it became a bit much.

That big old dump of negatives really isn't fair, though. This book is a fun read, a fast read, and if you love the holidays like I do, delivers a truly satisfying representation of a family holiday. 

Read this book if: You love British lit, holiday lit, or just are in the mood for a book that is the print equivalent of a "The Family Stone"-style holiday film.

Don't read this book if: You want to be bowled over by a new concept. Also, this really pushed the boundaries of what I accept in terms of language and general racy content from books. I find this to be fairly common in British lit, but still found it disappointing.

***THIS BOOK WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE ON OCTOBER 17, 2017***

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate

There are characters every kid should meet early in their reading life. Scout Finch, Laura Ingalls, Ramona Quimby, to name a few. Well, I didn't get to meet Calpurnia Tate until I was thirty, but you can be sure I will introduce her to my daughter much sooner!

"The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate" is the story of an almost-twelve-year-old (as she says) growing up on a prosperous cotton plantation. She is surrounded by brothers and a rather mysterious grandfather, who spends his days doing science experiments and attempting to turn pecans into a palatable drink. When she finally connects with him, Calpurnia finds her world blossoming with new experiences and possibilities. 

The book deals with a lot of history and ideas, such as the struggle to adjust to life after the Civil War and the role of women in society. It celebrates the idea that girls have just as much a place in society as boys do, a lesson we all would do well to teach our daughters. It also does a great job of framing the struggle so many of us face with the now infamous work-life balance. Calpurnia is already encountering it in her young years.

All in all, this was a lovely story and Calpurnia made for a fun and lovable heroine. I will say that I was disappointed to discover there was a sequel to this book, as I find these kind of narratives do better as stand alones (see "To Kill a Mockingbird" as the prime example), but I am curious to see how the characters grow and evolve with time, so I will definitely be picking up #2 and hoping for the best.

Read this book if: You love the characters I mentioned above, smart girls (or boys) with a ton of potential and a healthy dose of mischief in their personalities

Don't read this book if: YA isn't your thing, or historical fiction...or if you demand perfection from your HF (the author makes a point of saying that she was inaccurate with historical and scientific facts in several places, which I found to be a bit disappointing)  

Under a Summer Sky

Sometimes you really need a fun summer read. Something that won't weigh you down with heavy thoughts or fancy language. You know the type of book I'm talking about, the one where you kind of know the ending right from the start, where the love story unfolds with perfect precision, where problems are identified and solved within the confines of a few hundred pages. 

I know why these types of books are called beach reads. When I go on vacation, I want to read something that makes me feel good. And "Under a Summer Sky" does exactly that. It follows the story of Nicole, a high school art teacher, who [no surprise here] has recently experienced a break-up and is feeling stalled in her life. Then comes an offer she can't refuse to spend her summer working at an art gallery in Savannah for old family friends. Old family friends who just happen to have two handsome and eligible sons hanging around town.

This novel delivers everything you would expect from chicklit. Simple, sweet and satisfying. 

Read this book if: You love chicklit, want a quick easy read, like a romance that doesn't go PG-13 on you.
Don't read this book if: You are looking for high literature or want to be stretched or challenged in your reading life. Save this one for another day. Or if you are expecting Christian Fiction that actually gets spiritual. Sorry to say this one mentioned prayer a few times and that was about it.